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Bedwetting In Teens – Possible Causes And What To Do About It

Do you have a teen who is still wetting the bed? You’re not alone. Many teens struggle with nocturnal enuresis, a fancy term for nighttime bedwetting. And while it can be frustrating and emotionally draining for both you, and your teen, most of the time, they will grow out of it.

There are several reasons a teenager may be struggling with staying dry at night:

  • They are deep sleepers.

  • They are constipated.

  • There is a family history of bedwetting.

  • They produce too much urine overnight

  • They are experiencing a stressful situation or a big change (new school, change in family dynamic, trouble with friends, etc.)

All of these things may contribute to a teens bedwetting problem.  So, what can you do to help them?  The first course of action is to contact a physician as soon as you can to help set up a treatment plan.  Be supportive of your teen and try not to make a big deal out of it – it’s very likely that your teen is already extremely embarrassed about wetting the bed. Talk with them about it, and show them how to clean themselves, and their bedding when they have an accident. You don’t want to encourage them to hide their problem, but constantly having to ask you for help may make them feel even more embarrassed.

Below are options to consider if your teenager is still wetting the bed.

Try a bedwetting alarm.

These alarms detect moisture and can alert a teen if they are starting to have an accident. Over time, this can help condition them to wake up and use the bathroom when they need to go.

Bladder retraining.

Just like other muscles in the body, the bladder can be trained to empty at specific times. Learn more about how to retrain your bladder here. 

Medications.

There are several medications that can help with bedwetting in teens and adults. Talk to your doctor to see if this may be a good option for your teen.

Limit fluids before bedtime.

Try to avoid drinking too much about an hour before bedtime, and always be sure to empty your bladder prior to going to bed.

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  1. I’ve got a 17 year old son got diagnosed by urologist at 14 almost 15 with his overactive bladder. Was doing well with his urologist she had him on voiding schedule got plan for him at school and was consistent trying to strengthing his bladder. Anyways end of junior year and now whole summer has been extreme regression for my son. Every summer we visit my mother for a month m at her cape house. My son knew and accepted having to wear protection to bed in her home but he ended up having an accident in car on driver there stuck in traffic so I put him in his pullups for rets of ride told him it was just in case for today he stayed dry he didnt have to wear them tomorrow while at her cottage. Went out to eat after we got there he ended up completed wetting himself at dinner table in restauraunt when I saw him squirming in his seat and not even two minutes prior asked him if he had to use the bathroom. Since then his bedwetting was to heavy for the depend night defense pull ups anyways so those have become his protection all summer which I think has made accidents just intensify during the day. At night we had to order online to my mother’s cottage hes been wearing abena m4 briefs at night. Which was a struggle because up until 15 he only wore goodnites and well finally he manages to diaper himself at night securely after a few incidents but twice me and my husband his stepdad went out and if we weren’t there makong sure he wore his adequate protection we came back home to him asleep on couch in living room soaking wet on my mother’s couch and ruined her furniture. Anyways he starts school next week and at 17 its occurring to me I think my son is heading back to his senior year in pull ups during the day. Worse part of all of this he continously lies about if he wet his pull ups had an accident leaked. Under his bed and closet was just pipes of wet shorts pants and even used pull ups. I tell him he needs to tell me and mark any accident he has on wetting chart in his room. His urologsit just said she thinks it was a lot of pressure and responsibility managing his oab symptoms last two years having almost no accidents at school until end of junior year and regression though uncommon can happen.

  2. I was bed wetting at 17 but now I’m okay just bcoz I limited fluid before going to bed

  3. Our daughter is 15,and still bedwetting from her puberty! It started when she was about 12 and a half and she has been wearing cloth pin on diapers and adult size rubberpants to bed everynight since her bedwetting started.She is okay with the diapers and rubberpants and has an amazing group of close friends who support her.When she has sleepovers,her friends level the playing field by also wearing her diapers and rubberpants!

  4. My son wets the bed at 15, my son’s pediatrician said most teens will stop wetting the bed when they are 17 years old, and that Bedwetting at 17 warrants medical attention. What can I do for his Bedwetting before his 17th birthday?

  5. My son is 15 and still wets the bed highly. Doctor says he’ll likely grow out of it by the time he’s 17. What do I do to make him outgrow it before he turns 17 years old?

  6. i am 15 years old and i still wet the bed and those night that i do i cant breath

  7. My 16years baby girl she still bed wetting so I need help for her.. She get embarrassed..

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